If you have trouble talking about sex with your partner, read next
week's article. It will give you an alternate way to communicate your
feelings, likes and dislikes regarding sex without actually having to talk!
week's article talked about what you do on that first fabulous date
to impress a girl. This week you are going to read about what to do
once you get to bed! Since every girl is different, you need to take
these tips and mix them with some communication--the two of these
together are a no-lose situation. You are sure to impress her in bed!
and foremost is communication, before anything else. If you can't
communicate with each other, you will never know exactly what each
women love a man who knows what he is doing--so act like it! You can
start by doing these few things. Pay attention to a women's body
language. A woman who twirls her hair, or touches your leg or arm
when you make a joke is definitely flirting with you! Take advantage
of it and flirt back.
to read a woman can take a lifetime. Be patient and be aware--you
for the good stuff! You need to know exactly what all those body
parts are <i>down there</i> and what it feels like to be
touched there. Since I am a nurse I am going to give you the medical
version of getting to know your woman's body. There are two sets of
vaginal lips, outer and inner. Both are sensitive. Think of them like
the skin on your scrotum, sensitive . . . but if you pulled too hard
it would probably hurt.
clitoris is the small little bump at the top of the vagina.
Sometimes it isn't too visible until a woman is aroused, then it gets
a "hard on" just like you. So when you have a hard on, what
is the most sensitive party of your body? Well, it is the same for a
woman! Yes, that little tiny bump is very sensitive. In fact, that is
the part of a woman's body that, when stimulated, brings most women
to orgasm. (In fact the same skin tissue that forms a man's penis is
the same as a woman's clitoris.) Just imagine all that feeling you
get in your large penis is the same for a woman but compacted into
one little clitoris. Pretty sensitive! So treat it as so!
good rule to follow is to start out gentle--you can always go
rougher--but if you start out rough you may scare her away! Try
imagining her whole vagina as a fragile china doll. Using your
tongue, pretend you have to lick the whole doll, but not too hard
because you may break it. Take time to find the groves, bumps, and
every part inside and outside. Try gently blowing on an area after
you have wet it with your tongue, this cool sensation drives women
wild! Also, try humming when you are down on her. This vibration just
increases the sensational feeling! Try using your tongue gently until
you feel her getting moist, then gently slide your fingers into her,
pumping in and out. Try keeping the pads of your fingers facing
upwards. The area right behind her clitoris (on the inside of her
body) is the G-spot. You may touch it and send her into orgasmic convulsions!
about the "holes" in a woman's vagina? Well there are two
of them. One is the urinary tract hole, which she urinates out of.
But this one is so tiny and hidden (right under the clitoris) that
you will never find it. The other hole is the vaginal hole--you all
know this one! This is the one that gives you so much pleasure. So
how do you treat this part of a woman's body? The same as you want
the shaft of your penis treated. Without any lubrication, entering
this area can really hurt a woman, regardless if it is with your
penis or fingers. A woman normally secretes a natural lubrication in
her vagina when she is aroused. Some women have trouble in this area
for many reasons (medication, age, illness). But you can use saliva
to lubricate or buy an over-the-counter lubrication. When you are
going down on a woman, actually putting your tongue into her (even if
you have a short tongue) is extremely erotic! This will also act to
moisten the area to prepare her body for your penis. Sometimes you
like your penis rubbed softly and sometimes harder and faster is
better--the same with a woman. Try just putting the head of your
penis into her and pulling out. This is great to do when your woman
is already hot and moist. Do this a few times until neither of you
can stand it anymore--then thrust it in! This way you get both the
gentle and harder versions of sex!
that you know the actual parts of a woman's vagina, go explore!
Every woman looks different. Get to know what your woman looks like
and how she reacts to your every touch. Getting to know each other's
bodies is as fun as getting to know each other!
guys, have any tips that you would like to pass on to other YourMVP
readers? Send them in!! I will publish them next week!
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by Kevin Converse