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Welcome
to the first YourMVP sex advice column. Let me start by telling you
who I am and why I am doing this column. Really, if you are going to
take my advice on women and sex, you should know who you are getting
it from!
I
am an educated woman in my late 20s, never been married and have no
children. The last 10 years of my life have been filled with dates
and men -- both good and bad. Most importantly, I am a woman, so I
understand them and what makes them tick both in and out of bed. |
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Want
to know why I am doing this? Recently, I read a men's magazine which
stated that putting both a woman's nipples in your mouth at the same
time is a huge turn on. Far from it! That sounds more like a torture
chamber! From that moment on, I knew I had to pass on sound, reliable
information tomen regarding women. What better way to do that than
through YourMVP. So I invite all you readers to send in your
questions, comments, or dilemmas. All will be answered with honesty,
and by a woman.
Let's
start this first column with a quick True/False test.
When
you orgasm before your girlfriend/wife and she says "Don't
worry about it honey, it still felt good," does she really mean it?
Women
always want to cuddle and talk after sex.
Giving
a blow job is so easy, every girl should know how to do it well.
ANSWERS
When
you orgasm before your girlfriend/wife and she says "Don't
worry about it honey, it still felt good," does she really mean
it? False -- Yeah, it still feels good, but man does it suck! Imagine
yourself in that situation. You are almost at orgasm and suddenly
your partner stops and says "That is enough for me,
goodnight." I don't think there is one man out there that would
just go along with that. (So why do women? We will save that for
another column.) So all you men who answered "true" better
be a more conscious lover.
*****
Women
always want to cuddle and talk after sex. False -- Never say always.
Sometimes women just want to have good sex and fall asleep, too. If
you are unsure which one your woman wants to do on a particular
night, ask! Find out what circumstances make her want to do one or
the other. That way you can set the night up so that you both have
the same end in sight.
*****
Giving
a blow job is so easy, every girl should know how to do it well.
False -- If you watched a recent episode of "Sex In The
City" about "funky spunk" you would have heard the
blow job described more perfectly than I have ever heard before. It
went something like this, "If you think trying to coordinate
tongue action, sucking motion, teeth placement, gag reflex, and hand
movement all while breathing through your nose is easy, you're crazy.
They don't call it a job for nothing." So men who answered
"true," keep dreaming. Believe me, we wish it was easier,
too! Many women don't like giving blow jobs because they do not know
how. How about having a night of teaching each other things that make
you go wild. You can teach her to give the perfect blow job. And she
can teach you the things that she likes, too!
*****
Hey
men, ever want to know what goes on at a bachelorette party? Find
out in the next update of YourMVP. I will go behind the closed doors,
find out what women do, say and think the night they celebrate their
last days of being single!
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